Top
You naturally take the lead.
Confident, decisive, and energized by taking the lead. Your refinement can point toward Clear Lead Top or Warm Top.
Top or Bottom Quiz
Answer 10 quick questions to see whether you lean Top, Bottom, Switch, or Side, then refine your result into a more specific Energy Style.
Quiz Questions
10 quick questions
Pick the answer that feels most like you. The next question appears automatically.
Question 1 of 10: You are texting someone you like. What is your usual move?
Question 1/10
You are texting someone you like. What is your usual move?
Top, Bottom, Switch, or Side? Understanding the four energies
Bottom
You bring warmth and responsiveness.
Warm, responsive, and happiest when the dynamic feels collaborative. Your refinement can point toward Soft Receiver or Power Responder.
Switch
You read the room and adapt.
Adaptable, intuitive, and comfortable shifting with the moment. Your refinement can point toward Balanced Switch or Vibe Switch.
Side
You prefer your own rules.
Independent, self-defined, and not interested in default labels. Your refinement can point toward Connection-First Side or Self-Defined Side.
From the blog
Read before or after the quiz
Short guides for people who want context before taking the Top or Bottom Quiz, or a clearer read after they see a result.
Meaning and result guide
Power Bottom Meaning vs Power Responder: Slang, Myths, and Result Reading
A non-explicit guide to power bottom meaning, common myths, respectful language, and the difference between community slang and the Power Responder result.
Read guideScore mix guide
Top or Bottom Percentage Quiz: How to Read Your Score Mix
A practical guide to reading percentage-style Top or Bottom Quiz results through score mix, secondary energy, and optional Energy Style refinement.
Read guideResult meaning guide
Top, Bottom, Switch, or Side Quiz: What Each Result Means
A practical guide to reading Top, Bottom, Switch, and Side quiz results as relationship energy, with eight Energy Styles for extra nuance.
Read guideReady to find out your type?
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What is the Top or Bottom Quiz?
The Top or Bottom Quiz is a light personality quiz built around dating energy, relationship dynamics, and the way people naturally show up with others. It borrows familiar language from LGBTQ+ culture and internet slang, then turns it into a playful self-reflection format.
This is not a diagnosis, and it is not here to box anyone in. It is a quick, low-stakes way to notice whether you usually lead, respond, adapt, or prefer your own lane when connection gets interesting.
Want the full breakdown? Read our guide to the Top or Bottom meaning.
How the quiz works
1
Answer 10 prompts
Choose the option that sounds most like you in each everyday scenario.
2
See your mix
We score your answers across Top, Bottom, Switch, and Side energy, then offer an optional Energy Style refinement.
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Share it
Send your result or challenge a friend to compare your outcomes.
How to read your result responsibly
A snapshot, not a verdict
The result reflects the answers you selected in one session. It is not a validated personality score or diagnosis.
Context can change it
Mood, trust, experience, and the person or situation you have in mind can all change how you answer.
Your language comes first
Use a label only if it helps. A playful result never overrides how you understand or describe yourself.
Top or Bottom Quiz FAQs
Why people trust it
100% Free
No paywall and no hidden cost
Low Data
No signup and no saved raw answers
Under 2 Min
Fast, light, and easy to finish
Inclusive
Built for many kinds of connection
Any Device
Works on phone, tablet, and desktop
Pattern-Based
A reflection prompt, not a diagnosis