Answer 24 questions
Choose the answers that fit your preferences and the situation you have in mind.
Take the free 24-question quiz to explore your Top, Bottom, Switch or Side energy. After your basic result, you can answer 12 optional questions to request a free personal preview.
The full personal AI report is an optional one-time purchase.
24 questions
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You naturally take the lead.
Confident, decisive, and energized by taking the lead. Your refinement can point toward Clear Lead Top or Warm Top.
You bring warmth and responsiveness.
Warm, responsive, and happiest when the dynamic feels collaborative. Your refinement can point toward Soft Receiver or Power Responder.
You read the room and adapt.
Adaptable, intuitive, and comfortable shifting with the moment. Your refinement can point toward Balanced Switch or Vibe Switch.
You prefer your own rules.
Independent, self-defined, and not interested in default labels. Your refinement can point toward Connection-First Side or Self-Defined Side.
From the blog
Short guides for people who want context before taking the Top or Bottom Quiz, or a clearer read after they see a result.

Vers, switch, and the context behind each term
Understand vers, versatile, and verse; compare them with switch in BDSM; and see why a Switch quiz result describes a separate interaction style.
Read guideMeaning and result guide
A non-explicit guide to power bottom slang, active participation, role and authority, respectful conversations, and the distinct Power Responder label.
Read guideScore mix guide
A practical guide to reading percentage-style Top or Bottom Quiz results through score mix, secondary energy, and optional Energy Style refinement.
Read guideStart with 24 questions and a free result. Add 12 optional answers to request a free personal preview.
The Top or Bottom Quiz is a light personality quiz built around dating energy, relationship dynamics, and the way people naturally show up with others. It borrows familiar language from LGBTQ+ culture and internet slang, then turns it into a playful self-reflection format.
This is not a diagnosis, and it is not here to box anyone in. It is a quick, low-stakes way to notice whether you usually lead, respond, adapt, or prefer your own lane when connection gets interesting.
Want the full breakdown? Read our guide to the Top or Bottom meaning.
Choose the answers that fit your preferences and the situation you have in mind.
See your main type and the match percentages for all four types. You can keep this free result.
Answer 12 optional questions to request a free preview. The full personal AI report is an optional one-time purchase.
The result reflects the answers you selected in one session. It is not a validated personality score or diagnosis.
Mood, trust, experience, and the person or situation you have in mind can all change how you answer.
Use a label only if it helps. A playful result never overrides how you understand or describe yourself.
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