Why this site exists
The goal is simple: give people a fast way to explore Top, Bottom, Switch, and Side language without turning the experience into something clinical, invasive, or overly serious.
About TopOrBottom.me
TopOrBottom.me is a lightweight quiz and explainer site built to make a culturally loaded topic feel more approachable, playful, and easier to understand.
What this site is not
This is not therapy, a diagnosis, or a definitive statement about your identity. It is a browser-based self-reflection tool designed for curiosity, conversation, and low-pressure discovery.
How we build and talk about it
Playful but respectful
The site keeps the tone light, but it avoids treating queer language or personal preferences like a punchline.
Labels as context, not boxes
Top, Bottom, Switch, and Side are presented as useful cultural shorthand, not rigid categories people have to perform forever.
Results as prompts, not verdicts
Your result is meant to spark reflection and conversation. It is not a scientific score and should never override your own sense of self.
Privacy by default
Raw quiz answers are scored in the browser and are not written to a quiz database. No account is required. Usage analytics may collect page and interaction events, but custom quiz events omit selected answers; personalized share links can contain derived result summaries. Optional feedback is handled under the Privacy Policy.
How the site is maintained
Nova is the transparent editorial pen name used for the site’s guides. TopOrBottom.me is the publisher responsible for the quiz, policy pages, updates, and support. Neither Nova nor the site claims medical, psychological, academic, or community-organization credentials or review. Corrections and source questions are handled at support@toporbottom.me.
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