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Top or Bottom Quiz

Discover your relationship energy in 10 fast, playful questions.

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Quiz Questions

10 quick questions

Pick the answer that feels most like you. The next question appears automatically.

Question 1/10

You're texting someone you like. What's your move?

Top, Bottom, Switch, or Side? Understanding the four energies

Top

You naturally take the lead.

Confident, decisive, and energized by taking the lead.

Bottom

You bring warmth and responsiveness.

Warm, responsive, and happiest when the dynamic feels collaborative.

Switch

You read the room and adapt.

Adaptable, intuitive, and comfortable shifting with the moment.

Side

You prefer your own rules.

Independent, self-defined, and not interested in default labels.

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What is the Top or Bottom Quiz?

The Top or Bottom Quiz is a light personality quiz built around dating energy, relationship dynamics, and the way people naturally show up with others. It borrows familiar language from LGBTQ+ culture and internet slang, then turns it into a playful self-reflection format.

This is not a diagnosis, and it is not here to box anyone in. It is a quick, low-stakes way to notice whether you usually lead, respond, adapt, or prefer your own lane when connection gets interesting.

Want the full breakdown? Read our guide to the Top or Bottom meaning.

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How the quiz works

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Answer 10 prompts

Choose the option that sounds most like you in each everyday scenario.

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See your mix

We score your answers across Top, Bottom, Switch, and Side energy.

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What quiz takers say

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"Way more fun than I expected, and weirdly accurate. I sent it to my whole group chat." - Alex T.

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"It took me under two minutes and the result actually matched my vibe. The copy feels so good." - Jamie L.

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"Finally a quiz that feels playful, inclusive, and not painfully cheesy. 10/10." - Sam K.

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Why people trust it

100% Free

No paywall and no hidden cost

Low Data

No signup and no saved raw answers

Under 2 Min

Fast, light, and easy to finish

Inclusive

Built for many kinds of connection

Any Device

Works on phone, tablet, and desktop

Personality-Based

Focused on patterns, not diagnosis